Age Is Just A Number
Age is just a number, they say! Too much age gap between partners is thought to be a taboo in our society. But the heart doesn’t understand logic, rules the least! So here is a checklist…not to tame your desires of getting along with a partner with considerable age gap…but to check your practical viability of surviving together!
Check the Maturity Level
One must be with a person who is ‘mature’ enough to live with. The person may or may not of the same age group. If one manages to find a person who is mature enough and understands one’s needs well, 10 years older or younger really doesn’t matter!
Break the Norms
Breaking the norms is fine. Atleast for the right person! Society has its own measures of judging but ultimately choosing a partner is a personal decision. So the perfect age gap may not always be found, the perfect person can still be! One must look for a new perspective in his or her partner. Over calculations and over analysing is not a great idea. There are many other things and qualities to consider in a partner other than age.
It’s All About- ‘The Union of Hearts & Minds’
People often blow hot and cold over age gap of the partners. Infact it should be a non-issue! One must look for common likes, values, beliefs, trust and intimacy. When mind and heart works together to form a relationship of love and care, the most beautiful magic happens. Factors like age should be of little concern and one must not let it be a barrier at all!
Love is Ageless
Love is magical. When two people fall in love they must aim at living the moments they always wanted to and relish each other’s presence. Love is ageless (by definition!). It can happen to anyone, at any age and with anyone. Since it is our very existence, it can arise for anyone; the roles may be different though.Transparency and honesty are
more important in a relationship than gap!
Choose the Right Partner
One must look at choosing someone who brings new adventures and tremendous growth into one’s life. Dating somebody who is of different age brings a lot of fun along! One will never feel bored with such a partner. One gets to learn new things in each other’s company. If one looks at it more positively, the age difference makes one live all the experiences which one missed or would have in future!